The 9 Best Porn Sites for Women 2023

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OK friends, when you think of porn, are you immediately turned off? Yeah, we hear that. It’s 2023, and yet it’s still not an easy task to find porn that you actually want to watch, meaning a website featuring hot, good porn that doesn’t overwhelmingly prioritize the male gaze or the male orgasm. Sure, you can wade through the videos to find one where female pleasure and (over-the-top-slash-faked) female orgasms are the focus — but even then, there’s the distinct feeling that because of the way she’s being filmed, there is still a man calling the shots. Let’s be honest, even if you’re watching it with a male partner, you may get the sense that the porn you’re trying to enjoy isn’t for you. And that can make it harder to lose yourself in the story or the sensations the way you’d want to — the way that you should be able to, with good porn.

So, where are the porn sites that cater to the female gaze, that honor female sexuality in all its beautiful forms and that don’t objectify women in a way that will have you itching to take a shower immediately after viewing (in a bad way)? Where are the porn sites that feel current and up to date with what we want from sexual media today?

Fear no more, friend, because we have found some legitimately great porn sites for you. If you’re tired of porn that feels overwhelmingly straight and cis-male-centric, you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the following selection of sites. And while we’re at it, it’s probably the right time to treat yourself to some new sex toys for good measure.

Quick warning, though: please take care and don’t browse this one at your desk, because you’ll be able to access some NSFW websites from here on out. Click with caution and, when it’s time for You-time, have fun!

A version of this story was published on April 2018.

Quinn
Audio erotica stays a fave for erotic content, and while it’s not the same as visual porn, it is something you can get off to knowing it’s made ethically and with your tastes in mind. Quinn, for example, is particularly cool with its super user-friendly interface, cast of sensual and totally dreamy voices, and curated, inclusive playlists to hit all of your tastes.
Dipsea
OK, one more audio erotica, just for fun. Dipsea is yet another excellent introduction to how sexy and fun it can be to tune in and listen to some sexy voices talking about sexy things. With its clean and beautiful interface, inclusive and diverse casting, and thoughtful, consent-minded stories, you’ll love to plug in and enjoy pretty much everything in their library.
Bellesa
Imagine if Pornhub or RedTube became way, way more unapologetically female-friendly — that, dear friends, is Bellesa. Enjoy.
Sssh.com
Billed as a “smart and sexy erotic destination for women, by women,” Sssh.com allows you to access a variety of content, from videos to reading materials, all geared toward women.
XConfessions
Created by feminist adult filmmaker Erika Lust, XConfessions brings very real, very sexy stories submitted by various folks to life. Yes, it’s as hot as it sounds.
Literotica
If you’re more stimulated by words than images or you’re looking for a quieter, more stealth porn session, head over to Literotica and let your imagination run wild thanks to the enticing stories submitted there.
Vivid-Ed
Part of Vivid Entertainment and run by sex educator and podcaster Tristan Taormino, Vivid-Ed lives up to its name with articles, movies, photos and more to help you become your best sexual being.
Kink
Whether you’re sure kinky sex acts are your vibe or you’re looking to test the waters, Kink provides the videos you need to help get you where you want to go — sexually speaking, that is.
Dusk
Dusk is a subscription-based site, offering a variety of educational articles as well as very sexy viewing materials made with women in mind.